Out with old and In with the new!

Recently I had another run-in with someone from past. We had a falling out due to my husband listing our house with someone else instead of this person. She claimed that it hurt her because she thought we were friends, she was there for the birth of my oldest daughter, and she was my matron-of-honor. Basically, she tried to lay a guilt trip on me. She was the one who didn't return five of my calls when we wanted to ask her to list the house so it was her loss.

That was several years ago. Ever since then she has been a thorn in my side. She recently put me in the spotlight on her Facebook page and said how she was sad to hear of my condition and wanted to know if there was a foundation for what I had because she wanted to make a donation and that I was in her thoughts.

That's great! Go ahead, but I don't need your pity. In fact, I don't want to be in your thoughts or on your Facebook wall. You are not my friend and why don't you just stick with what you do best.... holding grudges. I could say I am soo sorry that nobody lives up to your high expectations and that you always have to settle trying to makeover people with your taste in clothes, jewelry, and cars. Is there an organization that I can donate in your honor to help you? How does it feel to be pitied? Not good huh?

I am putting this behind me and I am moving forward with my life. That is why I have the cane, that is why I gave up my driver's license, and why I am choosing to ignore you! I have enough friends and family support to get my through my bad days and I don't want or need any negativity. So ... thank you lord for providing me with dignity of this disability. I know you have a plan for me and this syndrome. It surely does not include her!